There is always a way

I stand there and gossip and tittle-tattle pass by. Who went outside to the beach again and took on 2,5 grams of weight? WHo is cheating on their dog, petting another one in public? How do you lose 4 kilograms in 3 hours?

Those are things you get confronted with at the trash avalanche.
It doesn’t bother me to the very least, as I only need to throw every thing NOT paper into the duct next to me.
Yes, I took another job offer at the recycling plant. But this time at the biggest in all the South Island, if that’s not a sight to see! You can’t miss out on this, right?

But the only good thing about this job is that you get payed. It is only two days, then I return to the carwash. Then I can listen to music on my headphones all day and the work mates are all amazing. Besides, it is a lot more satisfying to wash cars all day than going through the trash without end. AND I get money for it on top! 😀

That’s about the current situation. 🙂 The flat is all sweet and filled with lovely people. We are a Kiwi in his 30s in his own room alongside the own bathroom and I share the other wing with 3 students. A Slovak boy, a tiny Malaysian girl (she also knows the car make Proton) and another Malaysian dude who is staying short term only.

But all that is little consolation for the fact that dear Tina has left Dunedin… Another work opportunity made for this horrific disaster.
Once again saying goodbye and only memories remain… Well, it is not all that tragic, for we are to see each other again in out time here. Though not spontaneous anymore, which is a shame. Soon I will post about our last great doing together. 😉

Without context a fat and a thin bird from the botanic garden in Dunedin:

 

 

 

 

I now have to tell you the saraband of the other Monday. It went down like this:

A rose from the bed, gapped the shower (I would stink of all the garbage anyway), prepared some tea and went to the recycling plant. Having arrived, there were discrepancies: No new people were planned that day. Well, you can always call the agency…
I went outside, looked through my wallet for the business card, asked them and it came to light that they mistakenly thought I had been there already and could work without initial instructions. That was not the case. As the boss of the plant wasn’t in place, I had to go on my way back… Only that a day there means 100 dollars in your pocket.

On my way home you find The Warehouse, a bargain paradise. So that this day would be of any value, I threw some different things in the basket: Some cans of baked beans for a sixpence and a knife of the brand ‘Wiltshire’ with a sharpening sheath. One of those I had to my disposal at the host family’s and I soon came to miss a truly sharp knife several times.
Also some milk and bread, all cheap and at a discount and proceeded to the checkout.
You might have come to notice my small squared way of telling and that it might lead to some point of unexpectedness: You’re right, the left pocket of my jacket was empty…
In the place where I ALWAYS find my wallet, I found nothing. The cashier acted all laid back and I spurted to the car. Normally I always know where I put my stuff, but this morning didn’t go as planned already and thus, I just looked everywhere for my wallet. On my way back I looked around the parking lot, whether I had it fall out of my trusty jacket. Nothing. Great!
The purchases-to-be where put aside and I calmly thought about the time I held it for the last time.
That’s why I went back to the recycling plant and had to be disappointed there. No trace of the guardian of the credit cards. I wrote my number down and went back to the Warehouse. The whole road I kept my eyes everywhere, though I doubted I had put it on the roof of the car AND forgot it there. No sign of it…
In the Warehouse I also left my number and followed the friendly instructions of the Warehouse staff to retrace my shopping route… They told my they had found many valuable items in between the crates and cases, sometimes days after.
I also gave my number to the next door supermarket, in case anyone picked it up from the parking lot… Then I called the police by advice of the Warehouse staff, for they get a lot of lost things, too. They had no clue yet either, but would call me in case…
There I was now. My phone battery was almost spent from all the calls, my gas tank faced the same problem and without cash or cash cards, there was not much hope to get a refill on gas.

Resignedly I leaned on my car. Going anywhere without my wallet would be pointless and it was not in any place I was this morning. I thought about all the things replaceable and all the ones non-replaceable: Countless business cards, receipts, all credit cards, my EC card, 9 dollars in cash, the PIN code for my New Zealand bank account (kiddiiing, that one is only inside my head)…

During all this, I never fell into despair. That is a crucial fact. I sweat profusely, my heart went bonkers and the engine smells funny after a trip to 7th section on the rev counter, but I handled the situation with pragmatism. When it is not in one place, it is in another. Simple. Also the plan of organisational steps, in case it stays missing, took shape in my head. There would always be a way. It is not all lost as most things are replaceable and in New Zealand is hardly as criminally active to disable all cards first thing. It is not a nice story, but what are you going to do? Cry and sob, rolling on the floor? No, you live with this situation and try your best to restore normality again soon. All that doesn’t rely on emotion driven actions…
Well, I still trusted it to come to an honest citizen, who would give it to a place that had my number.

And thank god, he was! As I leaned on my car just there, stripped of one of the most valuable possessions of mine, my phone rang and I got the glad tidings of joy: A driver of the recycling plant has found the wallet and it ready for collection!
When I stood in the yard, infinitely relieved, for the 3rd time that morning I asked WHERE the wallet had been lying. I wanted to understand the own malfunction, so it could never happen again. But the secretary couldn’t tell me that…
And now I have become a tad more paranoid.

A different World

In New Zealand, Monday was a holiday.
And from one of my sweet colleagues I heard about a gem in the area. Middlemarch.
As we followed the street signs I realised that Middlemarch might not be a suburb of Dunedin, but a small settlement 50 kilometres out…

I don’t know how much the landscape can change inside a 50 kilometre radius in Germany, but we were stunned by New Zealand once again.

 

 

Dramatic sky at the rail tracks.

 

 

Some cups of coffee can do no harm.

At the café we were told that Hyde is well worth the ride and that the Sutton Salt Lake was beautiful, too. Besides we were  worried about the rather heavy clouds. But the owner was sure that there would not be any rain. She was right!

 

 

The hiking track was nice, but the clouds stole the show…

 

 

 

 

Did I mention us feeling like we suddenly landed on the moon? Out of the blue there were wide fields and rocks all around, the closer we got to Middlemarch.
The same we saw around the Salt Lake…

You stand there and keep asking yourself: Where have I just landed??

 

 

I have arrived at my new flat now and settled down. The flatmates home in one by one, which makes for more liveliness around the house. It is a renovated, rather old house with a fantastic view on the harbour and the Otago Peninsula. I could get used to it! 🙂

 

 

 

 

Also, I already have treated myself to a little stroll through the kind of surreal, but very lovely neighbourhood. Come with me! 🙂

 

 

 

 

And in the everyday life there also are some great changes left and right:

 

 

Isn’t this picture nice? 😀 Something old, something new…

A Hole in the Rock

Often you tell yourself: I will be here for while, I still have enough time to see everything. But from experience you know that time flies faster than you’d like. That’s why we canvass all the nice spots around Dunedin more or less dutifully.
The locals recommended driving up Mount Cargill. And oh, it was worth it! After all, it is the tallest mountain in the city area.

View on the (also from up close) all wonderful peninsula.

Dunedin from above. Behind the hill next to the stadium (bulky building in the middle) I will live from tomorrow.

And I looooove you all! 🙂

In New Zealand you can see and experience quite a lot for free. But for some things tourists are expected to pay some dime. For example to see the albatross colonies from up cose. Following the advice of the locals, we just went lurking outside and saw some specimens! So you can also have it for free, though a little less spectacular.

The albatross is an awe-inspiring, majestic animal. Up to 3 metres wingspan are easily distinguishable from the seagulls.

I went all solemn at the sight. It is something special, after all…

The albatross colony lies at the very end of the peninsula. There you find a commotion of seagulls and some lovely sights:

 

 

On a peaceful evening we went through a scenic sunset towards the Sandfly Bay.
That is how I pictured New Zealand and you are welcome to share in, because there are not many pictures more New Zealand like…

 

 

For those who have been thinking about changing their screen wallpaper for a long time: There you go. 😀

 

 

One sunny day we paid a visit to the Tunnel Beach. By Tunnel, not the extraordinary coast line is referred to, but the tunnel a rich gentleman had built into the rock to give his daughter access to a sheltered bathing bay.

 

 

The ‘secret beach’.

 

 

A small and rather unspectacular cave down at the beach.

The tunnel. This is what a healthy father-daughter-relationship looks like. 😀

The bay from above.

 

 

After a small shopping tour we had dinner, followed by ice cream. In Germany, do you get a 2 litre pack of cookie ice cream for a better 2€? 😉

 

 

 

 

In Dunedin you also find a botanic garden, which overflows with pomp.

But first photograph someone’s Coke can. 🙂

 

 

It has shown that I am a good car groomer and now I got 3 weeks to cover for a colleague, full time! That is a great opportunity, you can say out loud.
Tomorrow I will move in to the new flat and from there, life will go on…
You’ll hear from me! 😉

Down south the South Island

Dunedin shall be my home for the next months.
Was do you need to live, roughly: A roof over your head and a job or money.
I do have a job and a flat. 🙂

Everyone tells me that there would be many electronics technician jobs here. Haha, good one! I now have 5 temp agencies on the lookout (they have better connections than me travelling snot), but there just is no open position. Economy is on a low at the moment, so a job outside my expertise has to do.
Time will tell.

At the moment I wash cars for a rental company at the airport, which is a lot of fun, actually. 🙂 You can drive the cars (more like parking, but still) and get to know all the technical features of the new models…
On top the colleagues are just suuuper sweet, what makes it even nicer. (though there are less coffee breaks than ‘usual’ 😀 )

That’s it on the job. The roof over your had wants to be found, also. For a short term I moved in with a grandpa on social contribution, which is like..somewhat peculiar.
But next Sunday I will finally move to my actual flat. With students and a clean toilet. 😀

Well, all that goes down in Dunedin. Dunedin is a gorgeous and gorgeously old city.
Ind the 2,5 weeks I went on shooting and developed and stuck in the pictures like we are used to. 😉

 

 

Baldwin Street: The world’s steeptest street just next door…

 

 

The summit’s reward is art.

 

 

Because we didn’t find the right way to the right bay, we just left the car at some nice spot and marched towards the sea just like that. Take note: This method has a 100% success rate in New Zealand. 😉

 

 

Photography course with Tina: Portrait lesson

 

 

No streams of tourists, no wheelchair accessibility, no info boards. This is another way to enjoy.

Weather in Dunedin is changeable in a perfect way. The climate changes from day to day, you can get hourly change-ups from grey rainy outlooks to blasting sunshine. All that, repeatedly, too!

 

 

Spring in full blossom!

This is where Iive. All fur coat from the outside. 😉 (my room is okay, though)

City hall and library.

Upright for Celine. 😉

Tulips for dad. 🙂

The city centre is calles ‘The Octagon’. A picturesque place…

Another famous place is the Railway Station.

 

 

‘Parking No’

And for the finishing touch some geometry:

 

 

The Thing about the Au Pair

I am an au pair.

But just as with every au pair, the time as one passes. That doesn’t change the fact that you lived as an au pair. No matter if that time was shorter or longer.

My blog features the title ‘The Thing about the au pair and my life…’. That stays like that, but now only the thing about my life continues.

My time as an au pair was shorter than expected. I get asked often what exactly happened. As in the beginning I was quite happy with the family and living with there. And I was, no doubt; before in the last week certain cases came to light…

The cold New Zealand winter I lived as an au pair.

What I didn’t realise enough in the beginning was the fact that you inhabit a particular role as an au pair.
An au pair comes to a family in order to support the life with kids as a family member.
A family member surrenders to the regulations of the parents, by nature’s default. That can be, depending on how far those ways of life and values differ from the own, more or less difficult.
In my case there was no similarity to be found in their way of life and my personal reasoning. For I could have never adapted to their way of life, the relationship just didn’t take off.
But as long as I was sure that the host mum was satisfied with my work and effort, I was happy. The main problem, as revealed in the end, was lack in communication. In the beginning the host mum said that, if there were no improvement talks, every thing would be in order.
But seemingly I didn’t implement the hints and suggestions as precise as she wished after I approached her for advise. Thus, she took me for immune to criticism. Also, my good will was put in doubt, which led me away very very quickly.

Nevertheless I have a fully shaped life as an au pair to tell about. I now know the circle of laundry, can make extraordinary cookies, can do the dishes/ tidy up/ clean up, fry mince to prefection and know SO much more about family life.

I learned the importance of parents in kids’ lives. As kids are just the product of their parents. That applies not only to genes, it doesn’t. Every facette of the parents and the relationship between themselves and to the environment shapes the kids, the house and the life as a family.

I couldn’t stand it anymore as soon as I saw that my effort were fruitless.
And just how happy and free I felt when driving away from that house for the last time! Oh, those surges of emotion don’t come in every other day…

But aside from the bitter lesson my view on family life evolved as well. There were many many nice moments in that time, of course, and you can take something from any situation… In a few years’ time I see myself as a family man. (This information is supplied without liability. 😉 )

I have learned what it means to live with a foreign family and work for them as an au pair. That was my goal. And I reached it fully.
Even though there are some shadows above those 4 months, it has been an experience not to be underestimated and not to be forgotten.

Not least I came by some wonderful people…

Henry, me, Lea, Celine and Elena. These 5 au pairs have gone to all 4 directions of the wind… (And no, I didn’t shrink! 😉 )

Some hard learned lessons for au pairs to be:

 

  • Carefully watch the parents and how they act. Does only one get to speak or do both communicate equally? How do they talk about each other

 

  • What is important to the family and what are things the family does neglect? (what do they declare family values and what don’t they, is there decoration around the house or are medals and certificates the only trinkets, etc.)

 

  • Kids will always be a handful. But when you get word about fussiness and naughtiness in advance, you better listen up.

 

  • Milk any source of experiences you can get your hands on about the family. Carefully weigh everything you hear…

 

Maybe one day I will make listing of things that are important in general when being/ becoming an au pair and how reality and theory work together… Whoever is interested, just let me know and I will prioritise accordingly. 😉

However, my life here in Dunedin continues. Soon more about that… 🙂